Junior CMSA
Spotlight
Kelsie
Kicks Up Her Heels
CMSA
Member with Special Needs
excels due to Riding Horses
By Amy
Gardner
CMSA Rundown; April/May
2007
You never know what
someone’s life is like,
until you have walked in
their shoes…or boots. Even
then, each of us truly
marches to the beat of our
own drummer. But, in a
spectacular story of
inspiration and beating the
odds, 18-year old cowgirl
Kelsie Coalter, challenged
by Down’s Syndrome, bravely
presses through life’s
experiences, trailblazing
her own path to victory in
the CMSA.
Despite functioning on an
elementary school level,
Kelsie’s climb through her
disability spurs on everyone
who learns of this amazing
equestrian, to cheer her
on—in person or in prayer.
Through a heartfelt account
of Kelsie’s courage in
working through her
challenges, this special
teen was thrilled to
recently represent CMSA at
the World Championships in
Las Vegas.
As Kelsie’s father, Joe
Coalter put it, "talking
about her disability is a
positive thing, and so is
her involvement in riding."
Although Joe, 48, grew up
with horses, he and his wife
Bobbie hadn’t been around
horses for 25 years. That
is, until learning that
their only child (then age
10) would benefit from
riding a horse.
While researching Kelsie’s
diagnosis, the family from
Lodi, Ohio (45 minutes south
of Cleveland) discovered
that horseback riding would
directly improve Kelsie’s
impaired stomach muscles
(people with Down’s Syndrome
typically have problems with
stomach muscles which don’t
fully support the torso.)
Further, Joe explained that
horseback riding involves
stomach muscle management;
strengthening muscles around
the main stomach area (the
hip flexor, lower abdomen
and obliques.) With this
knowledge, the Coalters
immediately put Kelsie on a
saddle, and ever since, her
developments on the horse,
(and in her high school and
special education classes)
have been dramatic.
"Oh, the riding has helped
Kelsie’s posture in the
saddle, and also how she
sits in a chair at school,"
Joe animatedly explained,
adding, "What it’s also done
emotionally…is
immeasurable," he whispered,
choking up.
Shortly after observing
Kelsie’s improvements, the
family talked about getting
a horse of their own. So, as
Joe laughingly explained, "I
went to bed one night and
didn’t own a horse, and the
next day I owned 2!" (One
was a gift, for which Joe
and Bobbie are eternally
grateful, and emotionally
appreciative.)
In fact, emotions are part
of the ride…for Kelsie’s
family, and for anyone in
her presence witnessing her
stellar strides through
winding challenges in daily
life and in the arena. Joe
clearly remembers the first
year he competed as a cowboy
mounted shooter. It was with
the 1st Ohio CMSA Club in
Miamitown, Ohio during the
summer of 2003. Fellow
shooters encouraged him to
let Kelsie ride too.
"So I did," he said, "and I
don’t know how long I cried
after that," a misty-eyed
Joe shared. Reminiscing, he
recalled being taken aback
when, unexpectedly over the
loud speaker, the announcer
requested that volunteers
come forward and assist
Kelsie in the arena. A dozen
people immediately responded
to the call to help
"sidewalk" her (walk
alongside Kelsie on a
horse.) Heartened by the
outpouring from CMSA members
who didn’t even know them,
Joe and Bobbie still vividly
remember that moment.
Soaked in emotion, Joe
recalled yet another event
when Kelsie’s joy overcame
him with tears. As the CMSA
course ended and Kelsie was
coming down the rundown, and
nearing the finish line, the
crowd stood and cheered her
on. At that point, Joe lost
it.
"I’m 6 feet and 250 pounds,
but I’m bawlin’ at this
point," Joe declared. "I
guess what I’m saying is…how
do you describe the caring
from these great people?"
Joe, a business manager for
a pharmaceutical company,
also recalls how supportive
his wife was about his
growing interest in cowboy
mounted shooting. And then,
a year later, Bobbie asked
him, "Well, do you think I
could do this?" To him, it
was a tremendous step to
have Bobbie on his riding
team.
"We’ve been married 27 years
now," Joe relayed, "and I’m
still madly in love with
that woman." Bobbie, who
works full time for the
Department of Defense, is
thoroughly enjoying cowboy
mounted shooting. She
learned to ride and shoot a
gun at the same time, and
loves the pre-1890 period
dress worn by mounted
shooters.
But, even with both husband
and wife in CMSA, something
was missing—family unity.
So, in 2004, Joe carefully
composed a letter to Bobby
Ruwe, President of the 1st
Ohio CMSA Club, explaining,
We’d like to join CMSA as a
family, but how would we
classify Kelsie’s
abilities?" he wrote. Bobby
then forwarded the letter to
Frank Turben; President of
CMSA, who immediately issued
an astonishing response
arriving in the Coalter’s
mailbox that read, "Kelsie
will ride Wrangler," and her
card; #3374 was on its way,
Joe relayed excitedly.
(Although Wranglers are
typically under the age of
twelve, this classification
of young equestrians enables
them to ride the same
courses as adults, but
without discharging
firearms.) Kelsie was the
first person offered such an
exception due to her life
challenges.
Joe was floored. "Frank is
the President of a huge
national organization, and
we’re in Ohio; where he
doesn’t know us from boo,"
Joe declared, "but he
cares…immensely!"
Also amazing is the fact
that while the sport is
getting bigger, it’s still
grounded in a
family-friendly atmosphere.
Kelsie was able to join two
CMSA clubs in the Buckeye
state; the 1st Ohio CMSA
Club, and a newer club
closer to home, called the
Northern Ohio Outlaws.
Many of Kelsie’s greatest
joys in life are centered
around her horse. When she
hits the arena, her
enthusiasm flies along with
the dirt. "You can see the
pride in her face," beamed
Joe. He also found it
remarkable to receive such a
grand welcome from the CMSA
"family," encouraging the
Coalters to attend cowboy
church and potluck suppers,
and even offering riding
tips while bonding over
campfires.
"Tell me another sport where
my family can participate
together…where you have a
wanna-be cowboy, a city girl
and a special-needs
teenager," Joe rationalized,
"and no-one cares about all
that!" he exclaimed.
An especially poignant
moment for Kelsie and her
parents came a year ago in
April 2006 when the teen was
riding in a CMSA event in
Columbus, Ohio. Joe had
gotten word that the
celebrated wild mustang
"Nevada Joe" (adopted in
2002 by the Federal Bureau
of Land Management in a Wild
Horse Project,) would be
appearing at the same
location as Kelsie’s CMSA
ride that day. Trying to
calm his own excitement
about introducing Kelsie to
this famous horse, Joe was
keenly aware that Nevada Joe
was the Ambassador of the
North American Handicapped
Riding Association (NAHRA,)
traveling across the country
to educate people about
therapeutic riding.
While it was a big treat to
see Nevada Joe up close and
personal and meet his owners
Diane and Ernie Purcelli,
the biggest thrill came
later. Diane had asked
Kelsie to ride Nevada Joe in
her NAHRA clinic, and Kelsie
meanwhile developed a
special bond with Nevada
Joe.
Then, in a stunning
development, Diane bestowed
Kelsie with an incredible
honor, inviting her to join
cowboys and cowgirls from
around the world at the CMSA
World Championships in Las
Vegas. She asked Kelsie to
lead over a dozen NAHRA
riders in opening the CMSA
Championship.
"And when Kelsie kicked it
off, everyone at CMSA just
erupted because she’s part
of their family," relayed
her proud dad. The
heartwarming spotlight
featured a shootout
CMSA-style with therapeutic
riding, and each participant
got the chance to ride
Nevada Joe.
Kelsie returned home from
Las Vegas with several
prizes, including a special
World Championship jacket
embroidered with her name
and CMSA nickname, "The
Petticoat Kid." Also,
Kelsie’s teachers have
recommended her for an Ohio
achievement award,
attributed in part to her
involvement with CMSA.
So what’s the next big goal
for this special teenager?
Her dad, whose passion for
cowboy mounted shooting
resulted in his recent
election as President of the
Northern Ohio Outlaws, was
quick to answer. "One of our
greatest hopes is that
someday, Kelsie will enter
the arena all by herself,"
Joe said. "I believe that
through the grace of God and
our CMSA family, it may be
possible."
"Oh, the riding has helped
Kelsie’s posture in the
saddle, and also how she
sits in a chair at school.
What it’s also done
emotionally
is...immeasurable.” —Joe
Coalter
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